Portrait of a Healthy Mom

Moms are continuously challenged to treat themselves with the same care and concern they selflessly dedicate to their children, their spouse and countless others. Finding the time is one of the biggest challenges, but it’s an absolute necessity for your sake and the sake of your loved ones. Here are four ways to stay healthy – physically and emotionally – in the midst of the chaos:

Make the world your gym. This might sound strange, but it’s great advice, especially when you’re running around with your head cut off and can’t possibly see yourself making it the gym for an hour a day, three or four days a week. At home, you can increase your metabolism (which promotes weight loss) and tone your muscles with simple body-resistance exercises (push-ups, pull-ups, lunges, squats, etc.) in as little as 10-15 minutes a day. If you’re with the kids at a park, bring a few cones and set up a sprint course for you (and them) to run. Even riding the swings can be a heart-pumping, muscle-toning activity.

Plan ahead – way ahead. This is a great suggestion in general, but with respect to ensuring proper nutrition for you and your family, it’s essential. Why wait until the last minute and end up rushing to prepare breakfast, get lunches ready or whip up dinner after work? To combat this all-too-common trend, plan weekly meals. On the weekends, shop for the week, paying particular attention to purchasing a variety of healthy, easy-to-prepare foods you can turn into quick meals. Anything that can be prepared beforehand and/or in large quantities is perfect – leftovers are a great way to ensure good meals during the hectic week.

Give yourself a break. Sometimes finding time to do nothing is just as important as finding time to exercise, eat right or do something. Just because you’ve finally found an “extra” 20 minutes in your day doesn’t necessarily mean you’ve got to fill it with an activity. Taking a few moments to unwind, de-stress and get away from it all can do wonders. If the kids are asleep or otherwise occupied, kick off your shoes and relax in your favorite chair with soft music and aromatherapy (or complete silence, if that’s possible); if the house is still bustling, a casual walk around the block can be just as freeing.

Put yourself on your list of priorities. One of the very qualities that makes moms so special – selflessness – can also be their downfall. To avoid this, make sure you’re on your priority list (and not at the bottom); this doesn’t mean being selfish or putting yourself ahead of your children or your other responsibilities; it’s really about identifying when you need your time – and then taking it without feeling guilty. If you’re convinced that sacrificing your own health and wellness to ensure the same for your children is acceptable, think of it this way: By giving to yourself, you’ll be giving to them, too.